Archive for the ‘Compassion’ Category

Enlightening Funeral

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

Dear Friends!

I just came back from a funeral that I attended with my husband Stephan (thanks for being there for me!).  This was the funeral of a former client of mine whose name is Christine and I want to tell you about her:

Christine was sitting in a wheelchair since she was 5 years old, because of amyotaxia (a kind of spasticity, that goes in “waves” through the body so that you can’t really control your movements) and could only walk with the help of other people.  If she wanted to move by herself, she used to crawl on her bottom.  I had been Christine’s physical therapist for several years, before she moved out of her home in Hamburg 5 years ago into her own apartment in the city (she got a job at the zoological institute), where we found a new therapist for her. (more…)

Experts in Instantaneous Transformation: Holly

Monday, November 30th, 2009

Holly, a teacher mentor in the New York City school system, offers insights on how Instantaneous Transformation can open endless possibilities for educators.

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Being of Service: A New Possibility

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

Dr. Ivan Misner, BNINext week, Wednesday, November 18th, Ariel & Shya welcome special guest Dr. Ivan Misner, Founder and Chairman of BNI, the world’s largest business networking organization, on their top-rated Internet radio show, Being Here: “Being of Service: A New Possibility with Guest Dr. Ivan Misner”.

The Kanes and Dr. Misner will discuss how to have success in business and life and in particular how being of service to others is rewarding and fulfilling as well as being a great business model.  In addition, the episode will feature questions specifically asked by BNI members and answered by Dr. Misner.

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Sharing a Spiritual Day with You

Saturday, October 31st, 2009

Hi People!

GiovanniThis has been such a spiritual day.  I’ve been saying YES to everything, including many incomplete tasks in my apartment, and in my personal life and in my professional life.

This morning my father and his girlfriend Karen visited me to drop off a piece of furniture he wanted to give me.  What a blessing my father is!  Always giving!  Always caring about me.  He doesn’t owe me anything, yet he has all this patience and support for me.

We all had breakfast together in Astoria, and I felt closer with both of them than ever before.  In the past I’d had realizations about the way I would treat him like I was a kid, not being supportive to him, draining his energy, etc.  In the last two years, my relationship with my father has transformed big time, but today was actually a higher level of maturity and cooperation.

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A lesson in awareness that will stick with you

Thursday, October 1st, 2009

DimitreaHello everyone,

I have a short story I would like to share about awareness.

I have two small hand made quilts my step grandmother made and presented to my daughters when they were born. One of my daughters will be 15 years old next week and so will her quilt.

I keep these small quilts draped across the back of our futon in our living room. We use them almost everyday. Well, this Sunday morning I was folding one of them and felt a tiny point pricking my finger. Aha! I thought, this must be a straight pin accidentally sewn into the quilt. I got some scissors, snipped a tiny whole, fished the needle out by its pearl top, draped the quilt in its proper place and dropped the straight pin into the trash bin. Just mater of fact like that. No judgment, no story, no drama.

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Episodes of a Lovely Vacation

Monday, August 31st, 2009

Dear friends,

Karin RademacherI spent some lovely days of vacation in South Germany at the foothills of the Alps with my father, a 68-year-old wonderful, humorous, caring man. We did some tours, had health treatments, lovely food, I went horseback riding twice and we had lot of fun. I bought a nice pair of hiking shoes that made walking much more fun and easy. I liked them so much that one day I put them on just to walk across to the butcher’s :-)

I have been sharing transformation with my father since my first workshop with Ariel & Shya in spring 2007. He loves what has happened for me since then and supports me very much. I always invite him to join in. In these days I spent with him, I saw a lot of my behaviors, fears and worries in him. We shared about it and he told me about the worries of the generation of his parents in general but also concerning him who fell often ill as a child. I felt so much love and compassion for him, for all of them, and could also look at myself with love, not with judgments.

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Dive In, the Water’s Fine

Tuesday, August 18th, 2009


Mark discovers that he’s been hiding certain aspects of himself and comparing himself to others. The Kanes suggest that who he is right now is perfect.

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Experts In Instantaneous Transformation: Fernanda

Monday, August 3rd, 2009


Fernanda reveals some useful dating tips. (Note: This podcast is in English and Spanish.)

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Throw a Party

Monday, July 20th, 2009

The Kanes suggest that Ellen give herself a break rather than pick on herself for things she has or hasn’t done.

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The Grace to Be Yourself

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009